Khao San Road – three words that inspire the fiercest reactions in people. Before I left London for Bangkok, I had read a decent number of blogs that pretty much only had bad things to say about this infamous road in Thailand’s capital city. I was so frightened by this unanimous dislike of the street that I didn’t dare venture on to Khao San Road in my first week in Thailand, which I spent entirely in Bangkok. As I was staying in Silom and having a gay old time exploring the city’s gay neighbourhood, I didn’t feel as though I was missing out on much.
It was only once I had returned to Bangkok after a stint in Koh Samui and Koh Phangan that the opportunity to visit Khao San Road was properly presented to me. While staying in Bangkok, I was fortunate enough to meet two amazing Thai university students who possessed just about every human quality that I deem important; fun loving, kind, irreverent, smart and they managed to find a joke in everything. When they suggested that we spend an evening on Khao San Road, I figured that if it was good enough for them, then it was certainly good enough for me.
The infamous Khao San Road. Image courtesy of rbrands.
One of my hosts took great pride in the fact that she had partied on Khao San Road five times already, and for my other Thai host, this was his first visit, and like me he was intrigued to see what all the fuss could be about with his own eyes.
It wasn’t only the travel blogs that gave me such a fiercely negative opinion of Khao San Road before I had even visited. In fact, in other areas of Bangkok and on the islands in the south, it was made clear to me by other people on their travels that Khao San Road is a place that I should steer well clear of.
Arriving on Khao San Road for the first time, it is fair to say that my initial impression was that it’s a busy place swarming with people. I come from a big city, I love big cities, and I am rarely put off by crowds, so I managed to run that first gauntlet pretty successfully.
Cheap eats on Khao San Road. Image courtesy of Szymon Kochanski.
I figured that because Khao San Road is a tourist area, the prices would be incredibly inflated, just as they are in the tourist areas of London. Wrong. The road was full of cheap and hearty street food, and the drinks prices in the many bars that line that street are similarly suited to the budget conscious. And so my friends and I indulged in a couple of towers of beer at a very reasonable price. Far from thinking that ordering a tower of beer was a lout’s way to drink, to me it seemed a very sociable act to share a common pool of alcohol and I lamented that we don’t have this way of drinking at home.
But all of this cheap booze must lead to obnoxious behaviour, right? Well, I certainly didn’t witness any. I saw groups of friends having a fun time together. Burn them at the stake! Lynch them! I confess that the thumping music playing from a couple of the bars wasn’t to my taste, but it wasn’t like it was difficult to avoid. I just went to another bar where the music was a bit quieter – no drama necessary.
Perhaps the biggest and the most annoying whinge that people like to have about Khao San Road is that ‘it isn’t the real Thailand’. Bitch, please. It’s real because it’s there. Tourism is a legitimate part of the fabric of Thailand, just like temples, silk making and papaya salad. Oh wait, it’s not tourism that is completely at fault, but a particular kind of tourism. Tourism in which people have a good time with their friends, drinking and dancing. Give me a break. This kind of criticism invariably comes from the kind of traveller who spouts anti-globalisation guff at me while seeing no irony in the fact that they spend their time travelling around the world – the mind boggles, really.
Young people. Enjoying themselves. How bloody dare they. Image courtesy of sebr.
After a lot of thinking about this, the only sensible conclusion that I can come to is that the Khao San Road haters are snobs through and through. I can understand why a person might not want to visit the place, I get that not everyone is a fan of drinking or perhaps they feel uncomfortable in big crowds. Fair enough. But the vehement hatred that is spewed at this street and the people who frequent it is completely unwarranted. The people who hate Khao San Road are anti-youth and anti-fun – they remind me of the losers at home who love nothing more than to slag off reality television shows like Jersey Shore and The Only Way Is Essex – shows that simply present young, working class people, having a good time. I sincerely hope that as I grow older I don’t have such a chip on my shoulder that I have to be resentful of the people around me enjoying their lives in whichever way they might choose. As for the Khao San Road haters, they can stay away as far as I’m concerned, and in the meantime I’ll be drinking, dancing, and having the time of my life with my Thai friends on this wonderful street.





12 comments
Hannah @ getting stamped says:
Jan 28, 2013
we had a great time on khao San road too:-) not sure why do many people have so many bad things to say about it! We will be back there next December with my parents along for the journey:-) bringing them for cheap touristy souvenirs and people watching! plus super cheap food it will give them a chance to try everything and not worry about how much they are spending! Glad you enjoyed it:-) safe travels
That Gay Backpacker says:
Jan 29, 2013
Sounds like a bloody brilliant plan. Hope you and your parents have a great time!
Alana - Paper Planes says:
Jan 29, 2013
I understand why people may not want to spend a lot of time there – it’s kinda trashy and, depending on your budget, your room may very well be like a concrete jail cell. (When I first stayed on Khao San I literally put a chair behind the doorknob like in the movies – doesn’t that even work? – because the place was so sketch…)
BUT I find it fascinating. No, it’s not ‘traditional’ Thailand (but you’re right, it is REAL – I hate that ‘not real’ argument too), but it’s incredible that you can turn the corner from ‘regular Bangkok’ and be in the center of this mass of people from all different walks of life there for all different reasons, then turn the corner again and it’s gone. I’ve taken my parents and aunt there and they were all amused as well – at the very least it’s great people watching!
That Gay Backpacker says:
Jan 29, 2013
But what does ‘kinda trashy’ mean? Is it trashy to get drunk and have a good time? If so, then I am trash. Pleased you are able to find some good aspects to it though!
Alana - Paper Planes says:
Feb 7, 2013
Nah, it’s not ‘trashy’ to get drunk – just meaning that there’s an overall feel of the place being kind of cheap, dingy and dirty.
Trudy says:
Feb 2, 2013
oh hi! Just found your blog and loving it. As I type this I am sitting on a comfy Thai bed thingy outside a hostel just a street away from Khao San. I went today for the first time and had also been told that it’s awful. It was pretty tame I thought. Have you been to Phuket? Now Bangla Road is a place that has a bad reputation for a reason. Just because I get sick of people offering me ping pong shows and dirty old white men hitting on young thais. Khao San seems like a bit of fun to me, I might finish my Singha and head down there soon.
That Gay Backpacker says:
Feb 4, 2013
Hi Trudy – thank you so much for reading and glad that you are enjoying your trip! I’ve not been to Phuket – but I am kinda interested because there is a lot of gay life there. Just like you, I also feel uncomfortable seeing fat old white men hitting on youngens – gross.
Olivia - young on the road says:
Feb 6, 2013
Thank you for this! I’ve been having a bit of trouble deciding whether Khao San road is “too much” or not aswell.
I’m going to Bangkok alone on the 19th of March (as a solo teenage traveller.. whelp) so I think I will definitely be starting off there now. Seems like a great place to have fun and meet people!
That Gay Backpacker says:
Feb 6, 2013
I’m pleased I could help, Olivia. You’ll have no trouble finding people to chat with there and I reckon you’ll have a great time. Enjoy! And thanks for reading!
Adam says:
Feb 11, 2013
“Bitch, please. It’s real because it’s there.” – Amen!
I avoided Khao San Road my first week in Bangkok as well because of all the words on the street (and the guidebooks!) leading me elsewhere. But in fact I found it to be not as bad as expected and, after a few weeks, it definitely was a place I liked to hang out. I met plenty of Thais who loved partying there and that was all the proof I needed that it’s as much part of Bangkok as the rest of the city.
That Gay Backpacker says:
Feb 11, 2013
Exactly – Thai people themselves seem to love it. The sneering is pure travel snobbery.
C.L. says:
Mar 9, 2013
Love this! You solicited a long-overdue laugh outta me